Scorpio New Moon NOV 1 5:47AM PDT / NOV 1 1:47PM CET / NOV 1 11:47PM AEDT Moonthly Theme: TRANSFORMATION, POWER, SEXUALITY & SHADOW Scorpio new moon reflection: ‘I am formulating healthy relationships with my shadow while maintaining control of my emotions.' Scorpio New Moon at 09° 35’ Astrologer Colin Bedell says: What is the Scorpio shadow? Since we’re talking about a sign that likes to get right to the point, let’s dive in. The 'shadow,' most closely associated with Carl Jung’s work, refers to the unconscious, repressed parts of our personality — traits or desires that conflict with our self-image or societal expectations. While Jung’s definition is widely accepted, other psychological frameworks interpret similar unconscious processes in different ways. When I view the shadow through a Scorpio lens, I think about how we speak to ourselves and behave in moments of fear, loneliness, anger, jealousy or control. How do we talk to ourselves when these emotions arise and what do we do in the name of them? While Scorpio doesn’t own these emotions, it does compel us to tell the truth about who we are when we’re not being politically correct, perfect or people-pleasing. Referring back to Jung’s ideas on the shadow, these are the parts of ourselves we repress or deny because they don’t align with our self-image or societal expectations. By now, we should recognize that we — and the people we love — are all capable of doing scary things when we’re scared. This is where Scorpio’s self-talk comes in. One of the most practical and powerful uses of understanding self-talk is distinguishing between guilt and shame. Shame’s self-talk sounds like, “I’m a jealous person and therefore I’m unworthy of connection.” Guilt’s self-talk sounds like, “I want to control the situation, so let me calm down before I take it out on someone I love.” Shame makes you believe your character is unworthy. Guilt prompts you to reflect on where your behavior needs modification. Shame is often linked to negative outcomes like addiction, violence and depression because it makes people feel fundamentally flawed. In contrast, guilt tends to lead to positive behavior changes and healthier relationships by focusing on specific actions and encouraging accountability. Under the New Moon in Scorpio, think about how you talk to yourself when you’re in shadow and struggle. Let guilt guide you toward new choices and behaviors and when you feel shame, reach out to someone you trust. Shame doesn’t like being named or spoken, so wrap language around it — thanks to Mercury in Scorpio opposing Uranus in Taurus — and see how you get back on your feet by expressing your self-talk out loud. This New Moon offers compassion, empathy and attunement, supported by the Grand Water Trine with Mars, Mercury and Neptune. It gives us the chance to bring light to our shadow through connection, empathy, and the relief of realizing, 'I’m not alone.' It’s valid to be imperfect and scared of being hurt again, but Scorpio’s truth is that it’s our responsibility to confront and correct these fears with connection. We start by changing our self-talk in ways that foster connection, not isolation. So as you move forward, remember that Scorpio’s shadow isn’t something to fear, but something to work with. By acknowledging our emotions and being honest about our struggles, we give ourselves permission to heal, to grow and to form deeper connections – not just with our scared shadow – but with the best of ourselves and others. Aries Intimacy, Empathy, Sexuality & Transformation It’s all about 'into-me-see', Aries! Under the New Moon in Scorpio, your focus is on deep emotional transformation. You’re being invited to explore the full spectrum of intimacy, not just in sexual relationships but in emotional vulnerability. This is a time to understand how empathy can strengthen your connections and allow you to experience a greater depth of personal transformation. Take note of how your desires influence your actions — are they empowering you or keeping you stuck? Action item: Open up about something you’ve been holding back, whether with a partner or yourself and allow the transformative power of empathy to take root. Taurus Romance, Boundaries, Partnerships & Trust Opposites DO attract, Taurus. The New Moon in Scorpio shines a light on your partnerships and asks you to reassess how trust and boundaries play a role in your romantic life. Are you allowing enough space for mutual respect and openness or are you clinging too tightly to control? This is a time to foster a balance between trust and healthy boundaries. Your relationships will deepen when you clarify what you need AND are willing to give. Action item: Set or reaffirm a boundary that feels necessary for your growth in a relationship and trust that mutual respect will bring you closer to true intimacy. Gemini Habits, Systems, Wellbeing & Routine Small goals only, Gemini. The New Moon in Scorpio is asking you to tweak your routines and habits, particularly in the areas of wellbeing and self-care. You may notice old systems that no longer serve you need to be restructured. How do your daily habits either support or sabotage your growth? This is a time to explore new ways of maintaining balance between your mind, body and spirit. Action item: Identify one habit that has become stagnant and replace it with something that truly nurtures your wellbeing. Cancer Self-Disclosure, Charisma, Creativity & Lovability Express your Truth, Cancer! The New Moon in Scorpio highlights your need for self-expression and encourages you to examine how you reveal yourself to others. Are you afraid of showing your true colors for fear of being unloved? This is a moment to step into your creativity and charisma without apology. Your lovability isn’t tied to perfection; it’s in your vulnerability and authenticity. Action item: Share something personal or creative that you’ve been holding back. Let your authenticity attract the connections you seek. Leo Vulnerability, Home, Family & Emotional Agility Happy Homecoming, Leo! This New Moon in Scorpio brings attention to your emotional landscape, especially within your home and family dynamics. It’s time to confront where you’ve been holding back in vulnerability, afraid of being seen as weak or imperfect. Emotional agility — your ability to move through emotions and express them with grace — is key to finding balance in your personal life. Action item: Have an open-hearted conversation with a family member or loved one where you express your deeper feelings, allowing space for connection and healing. Virgo Curiosity, Observation, Dialogue & Active Listening Understanding before advice giving, Virgo. The New Moon in Scorpio encourages you to become a more active listener in your conversations, focusing on deeper dialogue and holding space. Instead of offering solutions, practice observing and asking questions that create space for others to open up. Curiosity is your greatest asset during this season and it will lead you to profound insights. Action item: In your next conversation, prioritize listening over speaking and ask open-ended questions that encourage a deeper exchange. Libra Finances, Security, Clarity of Values & Pleasure What does 'safety' mean to you, Libra? The New Moon in Scorpio brings your attention to the relationship between your values and your financial security. It’s time to get clear about what truly brings you pleasure and how that aligns with your material goals. Are you making financial decisions that reflect your deepest values, or are you chasing short-term satisfaction? Action item: Re-evaluate your spending habits and ensure they are aligned with what truly brings you fulfillment, not just fleeting pleasures. Scorpio Identity, Desire, Autonomy & Freedom Happy Birthday, Scorpio! This is your annual New Moon to make a wish and it’s all about stepping into your power. You’re being asked to confront the desires that drive your identity and consider how autonomy and freedom play into your sense of self. Are you holding onto control too tightly or are you afraid to assert your independence? This is the time to reclaim your autonomy and let your desires shape your future. Action item: Take a bold step toward something that feels deeply aligned with your personal truth, even if it means letting go of old identities or habits. Sagittarius Completion, Surrender, Healing & Spiritual Support Under the New Moon in Scorpio, Sagittarius, your focus turns inward toward completion and healing. This is a moment to surrender what no longer serves you and trust in the spiritual support that’s available. Healing comes from acknowledging where you need to let go, allowing closure to make space for new beginnings. Action item: Take time to reflect on what you’ve outgrown, whether it’s a belief, relationship or goal and perform a small ritual of release to welcome in spiritual renewal. Capricorn Friendship, Activism, Collaborations & Shared Humanity Power to your people, Capricorn! The New Moon in Scorpio encourages you to look at the ways you collaborate with others, especially in the realms of friendship and shared causes. How can you contribute to the greater good while also allowing space for your own leadership to shine? This is a time to deepen your sense of shared humanity and consider how activism or community engagement can help you connect more authentically. Action item: Join or strengthen your involvement in a collaborative project or cause that aligns with your values. Aquarius Career, Leadership, Integrity & Discipline An early congratulations is in order, Aquarius! The New Moon in Scorpio brings focus to your career and leadership path. It’s time to align your ambitions with integrity and discipline, ensuring that your goals reflect who you truly are. Are you leading from a place of authenticity or are you compromising your values for the sake of success? This is a moment to reassess your long-term vision and step into a leadership role that feels fully aligned. Action item: Identify one area in your career where you can lead with more integrity and take concrete steps to implement this shift. Pisces Wisdom, Publishing, Discovery & Higher Education You love an 'Ah-ha!' moment, Pisces The New Moon in Scorpio encourages you to explore new realms of wisdom and discovery. Whether through higher education, publishing or personal study, this is a time to expand your knowledge and share it with others. What lessons have you learned that are ready to be shared? Action item: Consider writing or speaking about your recent discoveries, whether in a personal blog, a course or even casual conversation with someone who values your wisdom. - Colin Bedell, QueerCosmos Want to dive deeper into the insights of your birth chart? Ignite your intentions and reimagine your journaling practice with the Sun, Moon & Rising Bundle and our Unlock the Insights of your Birth Chart Guide. Available worldwide. Decipher the wisdom and insight your birth chart offers and connect deeper to self and the stars by journaling with your placements and the signs in which they lie. 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